The most popular ECU’s for the 1JZ-GTE are the JZA70 ECU and the JZZ330 (soarer) ecus.
Below you will find the pinout for both.
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Soarer JZZ30 ECU pinouts for the 1JZ-GTE

ECU pinouts for the JZA70 1JZ-GTE